Hello gorgeous angel
of the planet earth.
As I already said in
my latest post this blogpost series is a collaboration with a really
close to me YouTube person I always wanted to collab with. Her name's
Marie and she's a really sweet and kind soul that has been and
still being through a lot of hate and bullying because of her weight.
She's going to share with you her thoughts about bullying while I'm
going to talk to you about something really important for our
generation. Today's topics are low self esteem and low self
confidence.
A psychological
research prove that the beliefs you seem to have about yourself often
appear to you as statements of facts, although they are actually only
other people's opinions. Negative beliefs about yourself are brought
to you by negative situations you experienced personally in your
life. If for example people are talking to you negatively your self
esteem is going to be effected negatively as well while your mind is
going to absorb this sayings as facts instead of opinions aka what
they truly are.
That's the reason
behind my decision to write a post based on that topic. We live in a
world that kind of made us lose the essence. We live in a world where
other people's "opinions" are able to bring someone down.
They say..
NEVER JUDGE A BOOK
BY IT'S COVER.
Everyone knows that
saying but no one really implements it because we live in a world
where socialization makes it easier for people to judge a person
based on a stupid rumor they heard unread of try to really R E A L L
Y know that person.
Daily experiences
help ourselves to form our beliefs that happen to us in real life
starting from our childhood. Experiences between you and your family
as well as experiences between you and your wider social community
affect the way you see yourself.
Keep in mind
something I read a few months ago. Other people's "opinions"
don't show who you are but who THEY truly
are..
"Don't let
other people's opinions affect you personally" -MacQueen98.
People are because rude
because they've been treated as shi*t as well.
I'm not trying to
excuse them I'm just saying how things really are..
This is our world my
friend..
If you're not happy
with it, instead of only thinking about it try to change this cruel
place some people call world.
YOU
CAN.
YOU
CAN change this world.
YOU CAN achieve all of your personal goals.
And most importantly..
YOU CAN be happy..!
There's one last
thing I need to ask you before you close this tab forever..
"Are you ready
to fight for your happiness?" -MacQueen98.
Don't forget to
check Marie's video about her bullying experience by clicking here.
xoxo MacQueen98.
If u are strong in mind,with genuine understanding of the nature of life and you yourself is positive in your actions, then when others trying to pull you down,put more energy to do whatever that makes your life positive and that housed your daily happiness and carry on with life and your own non adversery views will help you to have your happiness.
ReplyDeleteIf u are strong in mind,with genuine understanding of the nature of life and you yourself is positive in your actions, then when others trying to pull you down,put more energy to do whatever that makes your life positive and that housed your daily happiness and carry on with life and your own non adversery views will help you to have your happiness.
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